How has your life changed since starting college?

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

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In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?

I’ve realized the real value of money.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

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There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

How do I build rapport with anybody?

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

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From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

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From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

made friends

What is your biggest mistake or regret?

How has your life changed since starting college?

-Hitesha.

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Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

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For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

Why is sin so sweet?

I’ve become more responsible.

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

Why do some people refuse to explain their actions or behavior when asked? Why do they claim to not know the reason instead of providing an explanation?

Confidence is the key.

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

What is the nastiest thing you had your wife do and she loved it?

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

Thanks for reading my answer.